I. WAS. WRONG.

Friday, February 5th, 2010

Yesterday I wrote a post about trust.  The main reason I said what I said had to do with the sharing of ideas … and how some people over the years have taken mine or those of our business and run with them or made them their own.  And then something hit me as I was reading Linchpin by Seth Godin tonight.

I have done the same.

Yep.  The guy who has been angry about “stolen” ideas has also been a thief as well.  Much of what I have learned and teach about have come from the words and images of others.  I won my first art contest in 5th grade with a first place ribbon and special award for a sketch of a MAC truck.  An image I copied (not traced) from an older student.  My branding knowledge was learned from reading books, researching articles and conversations with others.  I adapted it and made it my own.

I think we are all “guilty” in some way of this behavior.  We are all inspired by others.  We hear and see things and it’s easy to forget where they may have come from, plus we are shaped by our surroundings.  So I was wrong by my attitude and motive behind my post.

Trust is as important as ever – but – if I never told a person that my idea was sacred or protected, then how could I fault them for this?  If we are in a group brainstorming and there is no mutual agreement about who owns the IP (Intellectual Property) then who are we to blame?  And finally, if we have been shaped by other people’s ideas, opinions, training, conversations, or experiences then can we really claim that anything is original or all our own?

Don’t severe the bond of trust if you know it will do so, but if you are not certain then perhaps make it right if you ever discover it wasn’t your idea.  Just my new two cents…

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My New Rules for Communication

Thursday, February 4th, 2010
Technology and social media tools have opened up an immense door of opportunity.  It has made connecting with old friends, our clients, and people in the community extremely easy.  We can make new acquaintances without ever leaving the office or conduct business globally from anyplace at anytime.  And we can find important information with a click of the button.


I love this ability but I also hate it.

As great as these tools are they can quickly become an addiction and distraction.  How many of us check Twitter and e-mail before we go to bed and the first thing when we wake up?  How many times do we lose progress on a project because of a new tweet or FaceBook request?  As helpful and cool as social media and software is, I am quite overwhelmed by it and it has become a problem – and think it’s time for me to get this under control.


Effective immediately I am implementing these new rules and guidelines to get back to productivity and balance:

  • Twitter: Reducing the numbers. I really appreciate the people who follow me, but to be honest, I can’t keep up with the 243 people I follow right now.  Most tweets are skimmed and I feel that if I am going to keep up with someone, I really want to know what’s going on.  Maybe the solution is the list feature, but just think large communities are difficult to keep in tune with.
  • Twitter: Reducing my time using it. I’m turning off TweetDeck or Echofon.  I have to!  Twitter is killing my focus and productivity because it’s spontaneous.  So I am going to limit my time on it to 3 times per day at specific times – morning, lunch, evening.
  • iChat:  By request or once per day.  Being on chat and available is a big time suck and productivity killer.  I love visiting with my peeps but they will only catch me online at lunch now.  If its important shoot me an e-mail or text message to request chat.
  • E-mail:  Check two times per day.  My preferred way of communication is e-mail.  It’s easy to track and segment into folders.  Regardless, I will check my e-mail in the morning and before the end of my work day, only spending a total of an hour doing so.
  • Phone Calls: Out of everything else I would rather talk by phone.  It’s more personable and you can read people better than written communication.  My plan is to schedule calls more frequently but more effectively.
  • Blogging:  I am going to block out time to write a majority of my thoughts and posts.  Or to create videos.  My hope is developing better content but yet still be flexible enough to publish my ideas as they come to me.
  • Response Time:  Don’t you hate it when someone finally responds to you after a week goes by?  Me too!  However I now understand there may be reasons for this – so please don’t take it personally if I don’t get back within 24 hours.  I’ll always do my best but no promises.
Please know that these guidelines are not being applied because of any person but rather my need to be in the zone to rock out valuable, artistic work and for being fully present with my family when I am not working.  These rules are for my benefit …and in some ways yours as well.
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Can You Be Trusted?

Wednesday, February 3rd, 2010

“I’m not upset that you lied to me, I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.” - Friedrich Nietzsche

Trust is sacred.  It is a value that should be held tightly and protected.  Once it’s broken between a person, a friend, or company it’s almost impossible to earn back.  This is why it’s important to not lose it.

If you are in business and talk ideas with your clients, co-workers, or even your competitors, then make sure you always do the honorable thing by keeping the trust sacred.  Don’t stab people in the back.  Give credit where credit is due.  Always be honest.

I would rather a person fail in a task and lose a lot of money in our company than to discover they cannot be trusted with sensitive information.  It’s that important for me and it should be for others as well.

Categories : Business Lessons
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