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How to Reach Your Goals.

By James Dalman · Comments (0)
Wednesday, August 4th, 2010

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step – Lao-tzu

You want to become a speaker and coach in the areas of your passion.  You dream of writing that novel that has been on your mind for 10 years.  You long for the day where you can start that new business and leave your old job behind.

These are just a few real conversations I’ve had this year with friends or family.  People all desiring to reach their goals and do what they really want.  The only thing that stops them is not taking a single step.  They can taste the dream and paint such a great picture but it never even begins to materialize, because there is no action.

Rob Pene is a different story.

I met Rob through e-mail.  He inquired about becoming a web designer but lacked the skills, training, or tools to do it.  And he hoped he could afford the membership to WebDesign.com someday.  I believe that God wanted me to give Rob a chance so I donated a membership to him and only asked that if he did well that he would “pay it forward” to someone else.  He didn’t take a step … he sprinted!  I kept an eye on his progress through the e-mails he sent me and offered a little encouragement.  Rob Pene has blown me away by his drive and new found skills and he has helped many ministries through 3030mission.com. This great, new friend is also now going to be helping me some at Branding Shed because he was motivated.

If you want to reach your goals, you have to move.  You cannot “hope” that opportunity will come your way or that you’ll get to it when the time is right.  In order to achieve your goals – your dream – you HAVE to start with a single step.  No other way will work and reaching your goals is work.  Take that step friends and see what happens!

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Categories : Business, Goals, Leadership, Life Journies, Passions
Tags : business advice, Entrepreneur, Life Lessons, opportunity, Passions

Back to Basics

By James Dalman · Comments (3)
Friday, March 26th, 2010

Do you ever wonder what it is you are supposed to be doing with your life?

In my last post I talked about the fact that I am turning 40 this year and that it has caused me to really start thinking about my life and legacy and what it is I TRULY NEED to do with whatever time I am blessed with in the future. I’ve gone through a season like this in the past where I struggled with my purpose, but this time it’s different. It’s not really about the purpose but more about the end result.

The biggest thing on my mind is I feel need to get back to the basics.

I tend to hone in on and focus on the things that really don’t matter in the long run.  I get distracted by the things I can’t change instead of working on the ones I can.  At times, the world presents something shiny and I want “it”.  I tend to be like the Dug in the movie UP ….Squirrel!

I am a lukewarm Christian who has been burned so many times by other Christians that I’ve withdrawn from church.  I am a husband and dad who has been spending way more time on ideas that I can’t lay down or let die, instead of being with family.  I am an entrepreneur who doesn’t know how to turn off and enjoy a hobby or time off.  And if I can be truly honest, I think the social media tools and Internet have been awesome but it has become a replacement for actual friendships or personal interaction.

I miss some of those days where life was simpler and about the basics.

Basics.  God first, family second, friends third.  Everything else is after that.  Oh, and I need to really fit exercising in there somewhere because I am getting fat and lazy.  How is that for transparency?  I can’t believe that I am sharing all this, but for some reason I really felt led to.  Maybe just for the sake that I will see this post and know I need to change what I can.

So there it is; rambling thoughts of a guy walking the path to an age that shouldn’t matter but does.  I’m in a mode of trying to discern the things I need to get rid of, what I need to embrace, and what I need to do with every day I’m given.  Maybe I’ll just dye my hair blonde this weekend and test drive a fast car.

Who’s with me?

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Categories : Life Journies, Passions
Tags : Christianity, family, friends, important things, Life Journey, Purpose

Give Your Art Away

By James Dalman · Comments (0)
Sunday, February 7th, 2010

I used to be a true artist.

My days used to be filled with airbrushing custom t-shirts, illustrating greeting cards, creating comic books, and sketching whatever came to mind.  I did these things because I loved to do them.  Time always seemed to stand still and hours would pass before I ever looked at a clock while being immersed in my craft.  It was a beautiful time.

The other side of letting my imagination go was that when I completed my art, it seemed to benefit other people as well.  There was an immense satisfaction when friends and family would enjoy the fruits of my labor… and for an artist, this is payment enough for our investment.

It is a blessing to give a piece of yourself away.

I was reminded of these “old” memories as I’ve been reading Linchpin, the latest brain-work of Seth Godin.  Godin writes about how we are artists and that we can actually enjoy giving away gifts through our work and jobs.  On page 83 he writes, “An artist is someone who uses bravery, insight, creativity, and boldness to challenge the status quo.  And an artist takes it personally” Seth then goes on to say, “Art is a personal gift that changes the recipient. The medium doesn’t matter.  The intent does.”

This really resonated with me because for so long I have forgotten what it is to give my art away.

I’ve only been focused on the monetary payoff or Return on Investment …and it has robbed me of the joy and satisfaction I once knew.  Sure, we should be able to make a living from our businesses or skills but there are ways in which we can improve the joy of our work by being an artist that gives away our art.

How does this apply to you? Maybe you feel as though you’re not an artist, but Seth goes on to explain that being one isn’t about creating a masterpiece with a paint brush, but rather art is as simple as a smile to someone who needs one to writing a blog post that inspires a reader.  So to sum it up, true art isn’t about money or fame or even a drawing; true art is about making a difference in the person who receives it – and we are all capable of achieving this!

My goal is to get back to being a real artist.  Not in the medium but in the giving.  And I encourage you to as well.  Remember, we can all be remarkable by doing small things that change the world, one person at a time.  Give your art away!

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Categories : Business, Life Journies, Passions, Thoughts
Tags : business advice, opportunity, Passions

Domain Addiction and a New Dream

By James Dalman · Comments (1)
Friday, January 29th, 2010

I am not afraid to admit it – I am a domain junkie!  Every day I get new ideas and today was no exception.

There is a project I have been working on for some time and it has nothing to do with branding, design, websites or even technology.  It has to do with my dream of getting my Oldsmobile Delta 66 up and running and taking it on a road trip across Route 66.  Nobody knows about this … except for you.

So I bought a domain that will help me launch this dream and to keep people in the loop on the progress (and hopefully me accountable).  I’ll announce the domain name once I’ve had the opportunity to set it up.

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Categories : Goals, Life Journies, Passions
Tags : Life Journey, opportunity, Passions

Discovering My One Word.

By James Dalman · Comments (2)
Friday, November 13th, 2009

I like to think a lot.  Stuff like where I want to go and who I want to be if I ever grow up.  I have a vision for my life and idea of what I want with this one shot I’ve been given.  I’m a dreamer …

I’ve written many times about how we should create a life we love to live and that we should do the things that we feel most important.  This is very difficult to do at times because of our professional lives or the responsibilities we may have at home.  It’s just not easy at times.  But as I was thinking again this week about what my life will mean to the people around me and what I want my legacy to be it was very clear that it wasn’t about branding.

Branding is something I’ve been very involved in and loved to do – it’s very much a part of me and my profession but it”s not THE word I want people to remember me by.  This week I discovered that my one word I want to be known for is PASSION.

Many people have gone through life with no spark; they simply go through the motions.  This is sad to me because there is so much that life gives us and the God has blessed us with.  We have plenty of opportunity to live with a burning fire and to make a difference.  I want to be one of those people.  Honestly, I’ve had that desire before but it got snuffed out.

Maybe this all sounds goofy but I continue to learn how fragile life is and how quickly it fades.  I see how we get caught up in the ordinary junk that doesn’t really matter and miss the extraordinary things that do.  I am hoping that I will start focusing more on my passions and leave the rest behind.

Live the Passion Filled Life.

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Categories : Life Journies, Passions, Thoughts
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