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Go Ahead … Fail!

By James Dalman · Comments (0)
Wednesday, August 18th, 2010

I like to fail. Why?  Because when I fail, it means that I tried.

There are things that I’ve done that didn’t quite work out like I planned and there have been times where attempting a challenge may have made me look foolish.  But I don’t care because it is better to try and fail than never try at all.  This is one secret to being an entrepreneur and launching a business.

I talk with people all the time who tell me they are dying on the inside.  They work in a career that makes them feel like they are in a death march to the weekend or they have a superior who robs their soul of all joy.  Sometimes they’ve wanted to live a dream they hoped for since childhood.  They want to do something so badly but don’t because of fear of the consequences.

You will never taste freedom or victory, if you’re never willing to taste fear and failure.

There can be no other way to know if your business idea will work, if you’re book will sell, if you’re recipe is great, if you’re product is wanted, or whatever … unless you are willing to take a step forward and risk what you hold onto so dearly.  Stop making excuses and GO FOR IT TODAY!

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Categories : Business Lessons, Goals, Leadership
Tags : business advice, Entrepreneur, Life Lessons, opportunity

How to Reach Your Goals.

By James Dalman · Comments (0)
Wednesday, August 4th, 2010

The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step – Lao-tzu

You want to become a speaker and coach in the areas of your passion.  You dream of writing that novel that has been on your mind for 10 years.  You long for the day where you can start that new business and leave your old job behind.

These are just a few real conversations I’ve had this year with friends or family.  People all desiring to reach their goals and do what they really want.  The only thing that stops them is not taking a single step.  They can taste the dream and paint such a great picture but it never even begins to materialize, because there is no action.

Rob Pene is a different story.

I met Rob through e-mail.  He inquired about becoming a web designer but lacked the skills, training, or tools to do it.  And he hoped he could afford the membership to WebDesign.com someday.  I believe that God wanted me to give Rob a chance so I donated a membership to him and only asked that if he did well that he would “pay it forward” to someone else.  He didn’t take a step … he sprinted!  I kept an eye on his progress through the e-mails he sent me and offered a little encouragement.  Rob Pene has blown me away by his drive and new found skills and he has helped many ministries through 3030mission.com. This great, new friend is also now going to be helping me some at Branding Shed because he was motivated.

If you want to reach your goals, you have to move.  You cannot “hope” that opportunity will come your way or that you’ll get to it when the time is right.  In order to achieve your goals – your dream – you HAVE to start with a single step.  No other way will work and reaching your goals is work.  Take that step friends and see what happens!

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Categories : Business, Goals, Leadership, Life Journies, Passions
Tags : business advice, Entrepreneur, Life Lessons, opportunity, Passions

Success. What Does It Mean to You?

By James Dalman · Comments (2)
Tuesday, July 27th, 2010

How do you define success for yourself?

Is it the amount of money you earn, the type of car you drive, or the title you are given at work?  Or do you define success as something like being faithful as a husband or investing in the life of your children?  Maybe it is about giving money to a non-profit or mentoring a protege who needs direction.  Whatever success is to you, you need to define it and understand it, otherwise you will never attain it.

I also think you have to be really careful in your definition.

You may think what will make you happy really doesn’t … and then you have wasted your time in a useless pursuit.  We are all going to die someday (as much as I dislike saying that) and there will be things that we may look back on and smile about and others that will leave bitter tastes of regret.

My advice to you and to myself is that we truly evaluate what real success means in our heart.  We only get one shot at life.

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Categories : Business, Goals, Life Journies, Values
Tags : Decisions, important things, Life Journey, Stewardship, values

Sharing and Achieving My New Goals

By James Dalman · Comments (7)
Friday, April 2nd, 2010

I believe it’s important to think through and write your personal goals down.  You need to have an idea of what you want to do and then a rough plan on how to achieve it.  But that’s just part of it.  I think we need to share those goals or aspirations with other people.  It puts you a bit out on a limb when you start telling friends, family, or your online community what you are doing.  Today, I am going to do exactly that … share some of my goals that I want to complete.

Build Freestyle Agent.com and give it away.

I started a new blog where I share about being an entrepreneur and fulfilling the “lifestyle design” dream.  I’ve been blessed to experience the freedom that comes with blazing my own path and want to show others how they might do the same.  And one day, I hope to pass the knowledge and site along to someone else who is passionate about the same idea.

Cruise my 1966 Oldsmobile Delta 88 on Route 66.

My best friend gave me a disease – the lust for vintage cars.  I wasn’t a huge car fan before but now I have a ride that’s been sitting dormant in the driveway for two years.  It’s been a battle to get her road ready due to a lack of knowledge and extra dough for car parts, but this is the year and I want to take a trip on Route 66 in my ’66.  I’m even going to document the process on www.oldschool66.com.

Hit my target weight of 185 lbs and lose 15% body fat.

I’ve gotten fat.  Sitting behind a computer 12-14 hours per day isn’t healthy, nor the Coke that accompanies it.  My dad died way too early from a heart attack and don’t want my kids to have to go through what I did.  While I know that when it’s time to go, it’s time to go, I feel that we should do all we can to prevent an early exit.  Carrying an extra 25 pounds isn’t helping my cause.

Fulfill promises not kept to my family.

It’s strange how we sometimes put other’s needs before our own family’s needs.  I am guilty of this and tend to forget that my kids will leave the nest over the next few years and that my wife is my true best friend.  Sadly, there are many days they get the left-overs.  I love what I’m now doing at WebDesign.com and being an entrepreneur, but there is a time one needs to turn it off to spend time with those who are most important and to complete the “honey-do” list.

Follow Jesus on the journey again.

This is the toughest one to admit to you.  I used to be on fire about my faith and actually lived it out in a way that was real.  I was even going to start a church.  During the last few years I really let the wounds that other Christians gave me fuel my desire to not be in church or hangout with other Christians.  What I’ve since realized is that ALL of us screw up and that it wasn’t God who did this, but the sins of mankind.  I’m not ashamed to say I believe in Jesus, but I am ashamed at how some of the “Church” has behaved towards those on the outside (and sometimes how badly they treat their own).  This is a sorry excuse though.  The wounds are starting to heal and now its time to begin the journey once again.

That’s my new goals and focus.  Sure I have other ones like travel the country, go to the World Cup championship game, finish the new edition of Branding for Church Planters, make a million dollars and give away a million dollars, but these aren’t the most important and I have to start with the biggest goals first.  Please feel free to keep me accountable and also feel encouraged to possibly announce and pursue your own goals as well.

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Categories : Goals, Life Journies
Tags : important things, Life Journey, Life Lessons, Passions, Purpose

Domain Addiction and a New Dream

By James Dalman · Comments (1)
Friday, January 29th, 2010

I am not afraid to admit it – I am a domain junkie!  Every day I get new ideas and today was no exception.

There is a project I have been working on for some time and it has nothing to do with branding, design, websites or even technology.  It has to do with my dream of getting my Oldsmobile Delta 66 up and running and taking it on a road trip across Route 66.  Nobody knows about this … except for you.

So I bought a domain that will help me launch this dream and to keep people in the loop on the progress (and hopefully me accountable).  I’ll announce the domain name once I’ve had the opportunity to set it up.

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Categories : Goals, Life Journies, Passions
Tags : Life Journey, opportunity, Passions
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